Jesse Jayne

Addiction to Clutter

2011-02-19T22:50:00.001-08:00

Addiction to Clutter

Clutter is a big problem for many people. At a lecture that I gave, I asked for a show of hands regarding how many people had problems with clutter and disorganization. I was surprised to find that at least half the people raised their hands.

One of my clients told me that she was trying to help her sister get back on her feet after her sister had been laid up with an illness and lost her job. Her sister's house had always been a mess, and had become so filled with clutter that there was no place to walk or sit. My client, Rebecca, offered to buy her sister a car if she would clean up her house. Rebecca even offered to help her sister clean up the house. Rebecca was shocked when her sister refused the offer, even though she desperately needed the car. He sister was unwilling to get rid of the clutter.

Why? Why was the "stuff" so important to her?

Underneath all addictions lies fear - of emptiness, helplessness, loneliness and aloneness. Addictions are a way to feel safe from feeling these difficult and painful feelings, and an addiction to clutter is no exception. It's all about having a sense of control over feeling safe. Clutter, like all addictions, provides a momentary feeling of comfort. However, as with any addiction, the clutterer needs more and more clutter to maintain the illusion of safety and comfort.

When my mother died and my son was cleaning out her house, he discovered huge amounts of clutter. While my mother's house always looked neat and clean, the cupboards and drawers were filled with clutter. My son told me he found 6 broken hair dryers in one cabinet. Why would my mother want to keep six broken hair dryers?

My mother grew up during the depression and always had a fear of not having enough. No matter how much she accumulated materially, she never felt that she had enough. The six hair dryers made her feel safe from her fear, even if they didn't work.

Carrie has trouble throwing things away, especially magazines with "important' information in them. She subscribes to many magazines but, being the mother of three small children, doesn't often have the time to read them. So the magazines pile up and pile up. Carrie hopes at some point to have the time to read them, but that time never seems to come. When asked why she won't throw them out, her answer is, "Because there might be something important in them and I don't want to miss it." Carrie fears missing out on some important piece of information - information that may give her the peace she is seeking. It makes her feel safer and in control to have all the magazines around her with their important information, even if she never gets to read them.

When we don't feel safe on the inner level, then we try to make ourselves feel safe on the outer level, and clutter is one way of doing that. Whether it's things, such as hair dryers, or information, such as in magazines and newspapers, clutterers do not trust that they will have what they need. In addition, clutterers may be resistant people who see messiness and clutter as a way of not being controlled by someone who wants them to be neat.

HEALING THE ADDICTION TO CLUTTER

Clutter is created and maintained by a wounded, frightened part of oneself, the wounded self - the part that operates from the illusion of having control over people, events, and outcomes. As long as this wounded self is in charge of the decisions, the clutterer will continue to accumulate clutter as a way to provide comfort and the illusion of control over feeling safe, or continue to be messy as a way to resist being controlled.

Healing occurs when the individual does the inner work necessary to develop a strong, loving adult self. A loving adult is the aspect of us that opens to and connects with a spiritual source of wisdom, strength, and love. A loving adult is capable of taking loving action in our own behalf. The loving adult operates from truth rather than from the false beliefs of the wounded self, and knows that the comfort and safety that clutter seems to provide is an illusion - that no matter how much clutter accumulates, the clutterer still feels afraid. The loving Adult knows that safety and integrity do not lie in resistance. Only a loving adult who is tuned in to the guidance provided by a spiritual source and capable of taking loving action in one's own behalf can create a sense of inner safety.

Practicing the six steps of Inner Bonding that we teach develops this powerful loving adult.

Breakthrough System puts an end to Yo-Yo Dieting for Good

2009-05-23T08:39:00.000-07:00

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Millionaire Direct Marketer's Students Are Becoming Wealthy In His Footsteps

2009-02-05T07:38:00.001-08:00

Born in northern New Jersey in 1974 Vincent James grew-up
in a poor-single parent household.

As child Vincent was offend teased in school.
He just could not retain any information when it came
to testing, even after just reading the chapter. It was extremely
discouraging, so he just gave up. He failed everything… even
P.E. class.

He finally dropped out in the 10th grade. Nobody seemed to mind.

No matter how hard he tried, it always seemed like he just was not
going to amount to much in life. He had always dreamed the finer
things, like gold Rolex, the sporty Mercedes, and the Million-Dollar
Mega Mansion!

He was convinced that the good life was just going to be out of reach
for him.

But, after attending a Gary Halbert seminar, Vincent’s life was
changed. He wrote few crazy ideas on a few scraps of paper and
crafted few letters. He sent his letters out and he was amazed with
the results.

Seriously-by the time he was 19, he had a brand-new Corvette.
At 20, He had 2 brand-new Mercedes Benz automobiles.

By the time He turn 28… He made over $100 Million in gross
sales and profited over $50 Million. He owned two homes-
one of them was 14,000 square feet and had a seven-car garage,
a billiards room and a resort-style pool with an underwater
bar! And He paid cash for the home!

In his garage, he had red Lamborghini Diablo, a yellow Ferrari
360 Spider, a white Bentley Arnage Red Label, about 4 Mercedes,
and a 12-passenger Lincoln Town Car Limo!

His checking account had over $10 Million in it. He was earning
$400,000 in pay each and every week. That breaks down to $80,000
a day… or $10,000 an hour! And those figures were if he worked 5
days a week for eight hours a day, which he didn’t!

In the May 12th 2003 issue, Forbes Magazine listed their top paid
500 CEOs in America. Vincent made more then 483 of them.After long court case and losing half of his fortune. He decided
to take short retirement from the business and discovered his real
passion. He real likes help other people succeed. In the spring of
2005 he released his first book on the direct mail business titled
”The 12 Month Millionaire”. He contacted some of the top
Direct Marketer he knew and asked them to do a join venture.

In the fall of 2005 he offered a small number of his book
buyers the opportunity to purchase reseller & publishing
rights his second book “How I Made $77 Million In 2
Years –and You Can Too!”. Vitagon Diagnostics Inc.
was one those companies who have
the rights to resell this book.

Vincent offers a mentoring program which he guides his students
through a 6 step process to their own fortunes. Many
have made as much as $100,000 or more in the pass 12 months.

For now, Vincent’s 100+ page home study course that may
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It will be interesting to see how many more millionaires are made
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If you haven't heard of him yet, you will. If and when he
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